Heartbroken and Grateful...

For all of my tears you would think that I had just lost my own mother and in a way I kindof felt like I did. Judy Dimond, aka... Matt & Michelle's mom, aka... Sis. Dimond was like my second mom. I spent practically every spare second I had in high school over at my best friend, Michelle Dimond's house. I had many chats with her mom at the kitchen table as we hung out or I waited for Michelle to finish getting ready for something. I was included in many family get-togethers, went up to their family ranch with them, attending church basketball games for the boys and giggling with the girls. Judy was always so welcoming, loving, funny and busy serving everyone around her, especially her family. She lived for her family and fought valiantly to stay with them as long as she could. She was a huge example of what it meant to be a loving mother and wife to me. I hope my home is filled with the same love that she filled hers with. It was a place that was always nice to be.

I can still remember just like yesterday one night that the group of boys that Michelle and I always hung out with (including Michelle's twin brother, Matt) thought it would be funny to scare the living daylights out of us girls by turning off the car's headlights and driving down Canyon Road in Cedar Hills towards Pleasant Grove. We were so scared, mad and totally shaken up by the experience and we wanted revenge. We were sitting at Dimond's kitchen table trying to come up with a plan (and this is at least 10 pm) when in walks Judy. We hushed our talking since we didn't want her to know that we were planning something mean against her own son and instead she had already caught wind of our situation and came in to HELP! I was blown away by her sense of humor. We ended up making some cookies with horrible ingredients in them and took them over to Jon Taylor's house where the guy's were hanging out. We had attached an apology note on the plate of cookies saying how sorry we were for yelling at them. They were pleased with our peace offering and immediatley dove right into the cookies. It took about 5 seconds for the shock and disgust to hit them as they realized they had been punked. Judy's just laughed as we told her the reactions of the boys. Never did Judy have a mean bone in her body but she did have a sense of humor.

Today as tributes were made and goodbye were said I can't help but think of all the angelic work that she did while she was here and what great things she must be doing in heaven. There isn't a life that she didn't come in contact with that wasn't deeply touched by Judy. She taught her kids well and they will continue on her legacy of faith and love. I know that she will be reunited with those that she had to so sadly leave behind this week and that does bring comfort. My heart still breaks and the tears flow as I think about all of the times that they will wish that she was still here with them as new grandbabies will be born, her last son will be married, birthdays will be celebrated and quiet moments of advice and hugs can't be given.

Sis. Dimond- thank you for making such a huge impact on my life, teaching me true happiness and letting me be a part of your family for so many years. I will miss your infectious smile, your contagious laugh that filled the room and your warm heart that enveloped everyone. You are truly an angel and I wished I would have told you sooner.